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Healing Prayer

Will Henning — Fri, 07 Feb 2020 03:04:37 +0000

With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints. Ephesians 6:18

The more people you know and the more you get to know people, the more you become aware of their need for prayer. This is especially true within the body of Christ where the struggles of others are made known through prayer requests. When I was able, an additional benefit to singing with our church’s worship team was the ability to scan the congregation and offer prayer for those before me that I knew were struggling. While I no longer have that opportunity, I find that social media provides the same advantage as friends’ posts become reminders to pray. Given my own circumstances, I would guess that a greater than average percentage of my friends face their own battles with chronic illness in addition to the “normal” trials of life. Consequently, I often find myself overwhelmed and, therefore, offering many simple prayers for: the need, wisdom, peace, their soul, and the glory of God.

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Home Improvement

Will Henning — Wed, 29 Jan 2020 20:10:15 +0000

Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body be preserved complete, without blame at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Thessalonians 5:23

As I sit down to write, there are stain and varnish fumes invading the main level of our home and a jackhammer running in the basement in an effort to improve our property. We purchased this house at the end of September. It is now nearing the end of January and despite a significant number of improvements already completed, there is still much work to do. It’s been a long and frustrating process. Repeatedly I find myself anxious and overwhelmed by the long list of repairs, the improvements needed, and the cost to complete them. However, in my frustration, I also see parallels between our house and my soul. More specifically, I’m referring to the vision, the challenges, the cost, and the anxiety associated with any spiritual improvement.

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Prized Possessions

Will Henning — Fri, 22 Nov 2019 01:58:36 +0000

Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:19-21

Moving, breaking up housekeeping, and disposing of the possessions belonging to someone who has died are events in life that painfully remind us that our possessions have the ability to weigh us down. Having just moved, we are very aware of how much we have despite having tried on several occasions to reduce our household goods. As this move was somewhat sudden, I’m sure that we have moved many things that we would have discarded with more time to sort and pack. We have also acquired items that the previous owners left in our new home. Another painful reminder of how much we have is that we are making major repairs to our home so we are literally tripping over boxes as we wait for the work to be completed before we unpack. Consequently, my mind keeps pondering passages like the one above that caution us about having too many possessions. While there are certainly more thoughts on the matter, I believe that Christ’s warnings about wealth were born out of concern for our well-being, stewardship, and focus. To be sure, they are in intertwined but each raises different nuances.

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Barriers

Will Henning — Fri, 11 Oct 2019 02:56:58 +0000

From whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love. Ephesians 4:16

Our new neighborhood has sidewalks on the back side of each property creating nice series of paths. As I was walking our dog the other day, I noticed the variety of back yards. Most have either no fence or chain link fencing while a few have privacy fences. As Marie and I considered what to do about our own which needs some work, we have agreed that we prefer the chain link as it keeps our yard open to meeting and greeting our neighbors. This discussion caused me to consider not only our yard but our life style and personalities. In other words, do we live our lives in ways that invite others in or do we put up barriers? While it’s very easy to do for a variety of reasons, Christ desires that we love well living in community rather than in isolation.

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Protecting What Matters Most

Will Henning — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 22:16:50 +0000

Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life. Proverbs 4:23

This week we began the process of packing up our house. I started with a hutch that we are planning to sell. It took all day as I was vigilant to wrap things carefully…especially the important items. Nothing we have is worth much. However, many of the items have significant sentimental value. Some are gifts while others are dishes that my parents used which evoke emotional responses as well as fond memories. As I carefully packed each item and placed the most treasured items in boxes that we will personally handle, I was challenged with the thought that I might possibly be putting more energy into protecting mere household goods than I do in protecting my mind, my soul, and the gospel. That experience has had me pondering this topic all week and challenged my thoughts and behaviors.

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Faces of Change

Will Henning — Thu, 29 Aug 2019 20:53:43 +0000

Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow. James 1:17

It’s often said that the only constant in life is change. That has been true for us this summer. Within our family: we have sold or are selling four homes, buying three, two families have moved, Marie and I are in the process, our three grandsons have changed schools, Adrienne and Tom just got married, and Adrienne has gone from single woman to wife and mother. I’m sure there are more changes, but that’s about all my mind can process at the moment. Most of these changes are intentional. The boys, however, had no say in the matter, but seem to be adapting reasonably well. As reflected in our family’s situations this summer, some change is chosen and some is not. No matter whether we choose change or whether it is thrust upon us without our consent, there are usually benefits that are enjoyed and challenges that cause frustration. It is incumbent upon us to recognize that both are God’s will for us and must be received graciously and thankfully.

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Wholly Committed or Halfhearted?

Will Henning — Fri, 09 Aug 2019 02:16:55 +0000

Let your heart therefore be wholly devoted to the LORD our God, to walk in His statutes and to keep His commandments, as at this day. 1 Kings 8:61

Roughly twenty years ago, I was in the hospital for observation to see if they could determine why I was having seizures. It was a one week stay in a unit that had four rooms with glass fronts; each patient was hooked to 80 electrodes and under both physical and video observation all of the time. The situation created an environment that lent itself to intimacy. In order to provoke seizures, the first tactic was to discontinue seizure meds. This was a concern to one young man in the room directly across from mine. He had not been married long and with the help of his medication, his wife had never seen him have a seizure. He had several violent ones that week, however, she showed up every day to visit and help him as best she could. In contrast, the man in the room next to him came to my room one night upset. He was a successful businessman who, from his own account, had an active and fun life with lots of assets and parties. As his seizures threatened his ability to work and therefore, his lifestyle, his wife had decided to leave him. She told him that it wasn’t what she “signed up for” and had no intention of being his nurse. These are the two sides of commitment.

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Encouraging Counsel

Will Henning — Thu, 18 Jul 2019 19:25:56 +0000

Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor. For if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion. But woe to the one who falls when there is not another to lift him up. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

A few weeks ago, I took my wife’s car in for service. While working on it, they found that three of the light bulbs were out and asked if I wanted them to replace them. After a brief discussion, I decided to try to save some money and do it myself. While simple enough for many, it was not that for me. As is the case with many of us with chronic illness, I had to mentally gear up for something new, get the parts and then have the energy to attack the project. Knowing my limitations, I searched for and reviewed a few “how to” videos. The light bulb over the license plate didn’t go quite as instructed or planned but I managed to get it replaced after a fair amount of effort. However, the rear side marker lights didn’t fare so well. There were two clips holding the trunk liner in place that I could not get out. Thankfully, the next day our son-in-law Corey figured it out and showed me the error of my ways allowing me to complete the task. Without his counsel, I was failing, but with his counsel I succeeded. In this case, the situation was rather benign; however, often times counsel is needed in more difficult circumstances. If we are to be a helpful and encouraging companion, we need to be discerning in our approach to counsel.

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Thankful Heart

Will Henning — Thu, 04 Jul 2019 17:39:18 +0000

Sing praise to the Lord, you His godly ones, and give thanks to His holy name. Psalm 30:4

Life with an invisible illness can be tricky. There are limitations which others cannot see that become frustrating. They are vexing because one cannot do the things that they used to do or would like to do. They may be annoying to others as they expect more than the illness allows one to deliver. It’s a balance to be maintained as well as managing the illness itself. But then, all trials present limitations and hurdles that must be managed or overcome. In the fray, it’s easy to lose sight of the blessings of life and to be thankful for them. This holiday week, my illness has been pushed to the background to focus on better things as I truly have a thankful heart.

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Blessed Endurance

Will Henning — Thu, 30 May 2019 11:00:05 +0000

We count those blessed who endured. You have heard of the endurance of Job and have seen the outcome of the Lord’s dealings, that the Lord is full of compassion and is merciful. James 5:11

Yesterday was a beautiful day so I went for a run. While I managed to endure to the end, it wasn’t easy for several reasons. In addition to my normal health concerns, a couple of weeks ago, I had a respiratory infection that has left me with a nagging cough. I have asthma and forgot to use my inhaler before the run. I also have a knee that isn’t always the most cooperative as well as a wart being treated on one foot that can be uncomfortable. I could go on, but you get the idea…there were obstacles that had to be endured to finish running the course. Today it turned cold and rainy causing my body to ache significantly. Further, it was one of those days when fatigue and lethargy set in. Today’s form of endurance had a different nature, but was endurance nonetheless. In fact, every day seems to require a fair amount of patient endurance. I must accept undesired changes in my lifestyle and abilities as my body often seems to be my worst enemy. It can be rather trying at times. However, each day I do my best to: stand, run the race, endure with grace, and to live well. Some days that goes fairly well while others see limited, if any, success. I struggle daily to endure because of God’s involvement in my life. From my perspective, here are three of the many encouragements to endure.

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